

Often, it’s our confidence and desire that is the sexiest thing a woman can wear to bed. Men need reinforcement and positive feedback. Close it with a positive, letting him know he’s doing it right and it’s really turning you on. So always start with a positive… what he does ‘oh so right,’ then show him via demonstrating on him or moving his hand to the place you want to be touched. “Men’s egos are often a little fragile in this area. “Most men say that being desired by their woman makes them cherished, manly and loved. “If you’re normally the person who says ‘pass,’ ‘later’ or who rarely makes the first move, then your taking the action to initiate sex is often the biggest turn-on to your man because it communicates ‘I want you!'” Meyers says. D, licensed marriage and family therapist and author of Chatting or Cheating, let us in on a few secrets on how to step up, speak up and get the sex you’ve always wanted.

When it comes to sex, sometimes the little things like initiating, saying exactly what you want and planning a sexy (not cheesy) romantic night can be daunting. Plus, we threw in 10 girl-in-control sex positions that’ll leave your heads spinning.
